Caring Lover? Be One!

Let’s face it guys – if you want to get some action you are going to have to learn how to be a caring lover.  Women can like fetishes, they might like getting tied up, or they might be willing to even be your slave, but you still need to show her that you care about her pleasure.  You still need to make her believe that you care about making her feel good.

Whether you are in a lasting, long term relationship or are in more of a fuck-buddy relationship, you need to show that you care by giving her what she wants and needs in order to reach orgasm.  Sure, you can be one of those guys that just fucks for your own pleasure and to hell with hers, but guess what?  She’s not going to fuck you again!

Here are some of the ways that you can be a caring lover, in relationship or out of one:

• Find out what her pleasure spots are and use them to your advantage.
• Go down – seriously.  Quit whining about it and just go down.  If you want her to do the same for you without complaining you’d better be willing to reciprocate.
• Put her pleasure first.  Yes, women take longer but think of it this way:  if you take care of her needs first you can relax and take your time or you can pound it out as fast as you want when it comes to your own orgasm.
• Take time to play. Really – women are playful creatures and they love it when you just enjoy their bodies.  Find out about little erogenous zones that she doesn’t even know she has.
• Get out some toys.  Toys are fun.  They do not replace you but they are fun so play with them!

When you get used to thinking about your partner all these things will come naturally and you will likely come up with a few ideas of your own!

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